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Marriage can simply be defined as union between man and woman. It is a lifetime contract which requires much carefulness to avoid regretting it on the long run. For men to choose their partner, it requires much diligence (likewise the women).
The type of women you shouldn't marry are women who possess undesirable and ill behaviors and are likely to kill you and the relationship. So you should be very careful to avoid had I know.
1. A woman who loves material things most: A woman who is materialistic will not have second thought before leaving you once you are broke. She is not the type that will stand by you in hard times. You should be able to detect during courtship if the
woman you want to marry is materialistic or not. Run for your life if you realise that she is.
Knowledge in nutshell:
• She always force you to spend extravagantly on her until you goes broke
• She desires for flashy things
• She goes for expensive things, even if you can't afford it
• She loves shopping everyday
2. A promiscuous Woman:
You can never sexually satisfy a cheat freak or flirty type of woman. There is no guarantee that she will change when you get married to her.
Knowledge in nutshell:
• She always hide to call her boyfriends
• She always call you a cheater without any evidence, because she is trying to salvage her image.
• She is always on social media 24hours, even though she don't have anything productive to do there.
• She always leaves the house without your knowledge or consent to meet her date
• She is always angry at you
• She always doesn't give you adequate attention (including romantic or s€xual attention).
3. The woman with narcissistic personality disorder (The Control Freak): Narcissistic personality disorder is known mainly for its characteristics of "feelings of superiority", the unquenchable tendency of self-centeredness among others. This type of woman wants to be the boss. If she is always giving instructions and never listens to you or shuts you down with her words, don't think of marrying her. It is advisable to go for someone you can have a decent conversation with, someone that respects you as the man.
However, type of woman will try to control your entire life. She’ll
have an opinion about how you should spend your money, chew your food, iron your clothes, and maybe even how you should change your personality.
This habit takes a lot of time, introspection and work to become unbearable. So step away from this relationship, and give her the time she needs to heal, to learn and to grow. Or marry her and stay doomed for the rest of your adult life.
Knowledge in nutshell:
• She is always selfish and self-centered
• She always nag you
• She doesn't need your advise and always do what pleases her
• She always command or give you instructions
• She can't hold good conversation with you or "pillow talk".
4. A woman with hot temper: Hot tempered woman will always fight over every little things. A woman who is temperamental in nature will never give her husband peace of mind and will fight over little things. Remember that men who live long are those with good wife. Nagging can shortens a man's life.
Knowledge in nutshell:
• She is always ready to fight you over every little thing
• Your actions towards her behavior might get you in trouble or bags you imprisonment
• She may go extremely to kill you
• She always nag
• She always raises her voice over everything
• She may feign annoyed to exploit you
• She is not happy always
5. A woman with jealousy tendency: Women are known for their consciousness over their husband whereabouts or activities but there should be a limit to it. Avoid a woman who is extremely jealous. She gets suspicious of anything you do. Such a woman can be dangerous and it’s best to steer clear of her.
This type of woman is also characterized with mood swings. Their mood changes as fast as the clock’s hand stays on each time. She picks up a fight every time your female friend’s number starts flashing on your mobile. She keeps track of your call records and text messages to make sure you are not communicating with any other girl. She also wouldn't even introduce her best friends to you.
Knowledge in nutshell:
• She always ask you whom you spoke with after a call
• She always secretly checks you out at work place
• She always believes little unverified gossip about you
• She doesn't want you to talk to women (not even exchanging greetings)
• She always checks your phone contacts and call logs
• She can't give you chance to move about alone on leisure times
• She is jealous whenever you help your friends and relatives. She wants to channel your alms to her people alone.
6. Girlie/Childish Woman: This type of woman always thinks that she is 16 and expects everything to fall on her laps. This type of woman is known to be extravagant and want everything to be her without any infinitesimal effort.
Knowledge in nutshell:
• She extremely forces you to celebrate her birthday and make sure all her friends are live to see how fantastic her party beats
theirs.
• She has many female besties and always don't have time for you because she'll always sneak out to see her female bestie.
• She always seek and execute ill advise from her female bestie
• She is always out of control
7. The Hitcher: This type of woman will always hunt for your best friend through you. She actually wants to be with your best friend but sees you as the channel. She gets close to you, makes you fall for her and just when you feel like you’ve found the one, boom! She hunts your friends and makes you a history.
The author narrates his encounter with such category of woman. Quote:- When I was in university, there was this girl I meet at school restaurant, we chatted romantically but it happened that my friend paid for our bills at the spot. The next day, she finds my friend to his residence.
Knowledge in nutshell:
• She always talks sweet about your friends
• She always flocks around your friends
• She talks negative of you before your friends
8. The Born Star Woman: She sees you as a big loser and she is the star. This happens if you marry the most popular lady in town when you are not the most popular guy in town.
Eventually, this does not always turn out well. It’s sometimes good to boost your self-esteem or ego but it really bites. It’s her and her all the way. You have no identity whatsoever, and instead of being called Mr. Right, you are called Miss Right’s boyfriend.
Knowledge In Nutshell:
• She is very notorious
• She believes that she is the greatest and you are inferior
• She is not interested in spending time with you
• She is 100 percent independent from you
• She got lots of friends
9. Expert In Comparison Type Of Woman: This type of Woman will always compare you with others at any slightest moment. She always talks about her ex and how he would have reacted to a situation
at hand. You are trying to put your best out to prove you can be a great companion but she always thinks you don’t match up to her
expectations or level.
Knowledge in nutshell:
• She always talks about and compare her ex with you
• She doesn't always value your presence
• She hates spending time with you
• She always compare you with other people's relationships
10. The No-roles Woman: This type of woman assumes no role in the relationship. She thinks that the relationship is all about her and expects you to take the leadership role which will leave her without much role to play at all.
Knowledge in nutshell:
• She has no identity to call her own
• She expects you to solve every puzzle that arise in the relationship
• She believes that the relationship is all about her
• She doesn't want to be bothered at all
• She believes in biblical quote: That men are the leaders, Women are followers in relationship.
11. The Woman That Is Not Connected: Every man desires for a woman who will pour into them, as much as they pour into her, and no one wants a liability. This type of woman doesn’t really
have a life outside of her romantic relationships and everything about her is about you. Run my dear for your dear life because she might end up strangling you with her choked up love. This is similar to No-roles woman (No 10).
12. Emotional Dullard Woman: This type of woman is very emotionally attached to you and cries at any slightest hurt coming from you. She caged you emotionally and there’s no
way out after marriage, so the best thing is to avoid marrying her instead.
Knowledge In Nutshell:
• You just met her and she is already talking about babies with you. Run, she wants to get hitched by all means.
• She always shed tears at every slightest misunderstanding
13. The Woman Who Believes In Feminism: This type of woman will always want to put you under her feet. She believes that women are the greatest while men are the inferiors. She also believes that she was born to empower, enlighten and save women from the chauvinistic men on earth, including you.
This biased lady obviously has no respect for you even as her boyfriend or fiance. So to be on the safer side of the boat, It’s better you don't marry her.
14. The Nagger: This is the worst type of woman you wouldn't ever want to be with. This type of woman shortens man's life faster. She’ll leave you questioning your value, your worth and significance. You’ll never feel appreciated under the constant cloud of criticism. And the worst part is that she doesn’t say her opinion in a quiet way, she repeats the same thing over and over
again and sometimes in a loud voice.
Knowledge In Nutshell:
• She always shouts at you and prefer her opinion to dominate
• She is always not happy
• She always feels she is right while you are wrong
• She never care about your significance, worth and value.
• She always use imperative language
15. The Woman With Internal Crisis: A woman like this will take your heart on a ride, because she is a confused entity and doesn’t really know what she wants. One moment she’s into you, and the other moment she’s confused and wants to take a step
back. This internal struggle is not going to be resolved any time soon, so do yourself a favor and find someone who’s just as into you as you are into them. Healthy relationships are marked
by peace, not by constant doubt and later regrets.
Knowledge In Nutshell:
• She always question your capabilities
• She always suspects you
• Her tendency for extremely doubts will leave you with no peace
• She's always confused
• Her doubts will make her not want to be open with you
16. The Deceptive Look: This type of woman is always addicted to makeup and cosmetic 24/7. What you see at night is not what you get in the morning. She looks so innocent and you think she is the most beautiful woman in Nigeria until you see her early in the morning. After all her body modification have been removed, the real person looks like a masquerade and disgusting. Don’t be deceived she will only look worse than that in a couple of months.
17. The Complaint Box: This type of woman extremely complain. For her, everything is not just right, even if she can’t explain why she doesn’t like the way things are, she loves to hate you. She always finds fault with all that you have done and have no appreciation for anything you have done. What this does to you is way beyond making you lose your confidence and self-respect, it kills your ego in the long run if you marry her.
18. The Religious Fanatics: This type of women are addicted to religious activities keeping the relationship aside. They strongly believe that their relationship on earth is with God and not you. They many at times behaves demented or lose contact with reality. Most of them have awkward dressing code. They devote all their time to religious activities leaving their family behind, so you better run for your dear life to avoid regretting it later.
19. The Gossip Addict: Even though women are known for their tendency to gossip about. But the worst one will end up baring your family affairs which are supposed to be a privacy between you and her. This type of woman also seek disastrous advise from her gossip friends on how to manage or deal with you.
By Fidelis Kene C.
